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Pickup Artist Techniques Basics: Mystery’s M3 Model

There exists in the realm of Pickup Artists several many school of thoughts.  Naturally with these school of thoughts there exists different gurus, experts, pickup artists, and disciples. 

There are systems that focus on just getting as much sex as you can, systems that teach you how to pick up as many women as possible, and those that teach you how to gain and maintain real relationships. 

All these pickup artist techniques are variations of a fundamental system but at different complexities.

I personally dislike the sex systems because they are shallow, abuse the pickup artist techniques, and generally are cheap, quick fixes that skim on the art of attracting women.  I prefer systems like the Tao of Badass that focus on actual relationships and treating women like human beings instead of a talking blow up doll.

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pickup artist technique basics

If you research pickup artist techniques, there exists a whole parallel universe complete with their own language, philosophy, code system, and ideals. 

Among the many pickup artist techniques and systems, I will go over the world famous and legendary Mystery’s M3 Model.  This is one of the first systems that was actually codified into a set structure and serves as the skeleton/guideline for many of the systems out there.


Pick Up Artist Techniques: Mystery’s M3 Model

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1. Open
2. Female to Male Interest
3. Male to Female Interest


1. Building Rapport
2. Building emotional and physical connections
3. Intimacy


1. Arousal
2. Last Minute Resistance
3. Sex



 A1. Open


You open the set, meaning you initiate contact by approaching them. 

This includes the dreaded cold approaches, pickup lines, and starting a conversation.

Must also include a Social Hook Point.  This is the pivotal moment in the beginning of a cold interaction where the set (girls, group of girls, group of guys/girls) want you to stick around for a bit, because you are interesting.

This is done by hooking their interest through negging or an interesting discussion sparked by the opener.


A2. Female to Male Interest

You must get the girl interested, attracted, and/or intrigued in you first.  This is done by DHV (Demonstrate High Value).  This is the primary reason women are attracted to men: when men have a high perceived value.  There are many pickup artist techniques to demonstrating high value and they include: story telling, gimmicks, magic demonstrations, psychic readings, negging (veiled teasing), leading the conversation, etc…

A3. Male to Female Interest

In this phase, The HB (Hot Babe) must be baited into demonstrating her own value. By this way, you’re just attracted to her by her personality or charm, other than her looks. You must have her earn you interest and be interested in something besides her looks.  Since you have already demonstrated your high value from A2, you are in a slight position of power and in a position to judge if she is cool enough to hang with you.

C1. Building Rapport

In this phase, just the two of you should be chilling and talking.  This is to create a sense of comfort with one another.  This is the time to relax and just bullshit with each other, find any commonalities, and start to relate to each other.

C2. Building emotional and physical connections

Emotional connection is just conversation taken to the next level.  Here you want to throw in some stories that make you look vulnerable and sensitive such as childhood memories and insights into your thoughts.

After emotional connection has been established, you immediately want to escalate the physical connection through kino (touching).  Kinoing is the best way to evolve out of the nasty “friend zone” into the sexual zone.

C3. Intimacy

The C3 takes place at a possible sex location.  The talking/cuddling/kissing turns into heavy making-out and now it’s time to close the deal.

S1. Arousal

Once you get to this stage, it is beyond the scope of pickup techniques, but another subject all together: your sexual game.  The important thing is to escalate from C3 to S1 smoothly, naturally, and with precise timing.  If you escalate too early or unnaturally, the girl will get buyer’s remorse and you might blow everything!

S2. LMR (Last Minute Resistance)

Mystery: “Last Minute Resistance.  This is the point of no return before sex occurs.  It’s often a freak-out moment for the woman.”

“This is too fast…”  “I barely know you.”  “No sex… okay?” or just push you away from certain areas (like her underwear).

Most girls don’t want to feel like a slut so they will give some form of LMR.  The key here is to not be needy and desperate but rather reinforce the idea that she wants this and you are providing a service.

S3. Sex

Have fun and make sure to call/text/email her.  Don’t be a jerk and ruin it for the rest of us…


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