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Approaching Women: The Prerequisites | Attract Women Report
Before The Approach
approaching women: the prerequisites
Approaching Women: The Prerequisites

The first and foremost step to attracting a woman is the cold approach.  To most men, cold approaching women is one of the most nerve wracking thing you can do, ahead of even public speaking. 

This is completely out of our comfort zone and requires a different set of balls than jumping out of planes or wrestling crocodiles.

Bad news is that the cold approach is one of the most nerve shattering and uncomfortable things you can do.  Worse, if somehow you work up the courage to awkwardly approach a hottie, the subsequent stare, snicker, and rejection will completely devastate your ego and will to live.

Good news is this approach anxiety can be minimized and conquered through practice.  With enough repetition, even the pain of rejection will start to lessen until eventually, you won’t get rejected at all.

SECRETS TO: Approaching women successfully

WHAT SHOULD YOU SAY ON THE APPROACH? Pickup lines that work!

Approaching Women: The Prerequisites

1) Confidence

approaching women: the prerequisitesThe #1 most important element to approaching women that all pickup artists, relationship gurus, and seduction experts agree on is confidence. 

The #1 quality that attracts women to men is not looks, personality, or even money, it is confidence.

A man with money, power, and self-esteem will naturally exude confidence.  Therefore, if a man exudes confidence, it is implied that he has money, power, and self-esteem. 

It is this implication and not the actuality that will initially attract a woman.  Because how will she know how much money you have upon first meeting besides the way you present yourself?

 First prerequisite to attracting a woman is to build confidence, confidence, and more confidence. 

JUST HOW IMPORTANT IS CONFIDENCE? The #1 secret to attracting women

2) Grooming

If you dress like a slob, groom like a slob, and look like a slob, then you will feel like a slob, act like a slob, and be generally unattractive to women. 

Any man, with proper grooming, exercise and effort can be presentable.  Just like if an average looking woman takes care of herself really well, like in those makeover shows, the effect is dramatic.

“Luck is what happens when preparation meets opportunity.”

– Lucius Annaeus Seneca –

This means showers, shaving, deodorant, haircuts, laundry, polishing, shopping, gym time, and EFFORT. 

There’s something magical about looking your best.  If you look good, you feel good, and if you feel good, you’re confident, and if you’re confident, you radiate a certain aura that is very attractive.

Don’t just look good when you’re going on a date.  Always be prepared because you don’t know when the opportunity will come.

THE REASON WHY: You must never be friends with a woman you’re attracted to

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approaching women: the prerequisites

Look what a little grooming can do.

3) Communication Skills

You managed to approach a girl and strike up a conversation without getting slapped or laughed away.  You guys are talking and laughing and having a good time when all of a sudden, you run out of things to say. 

She looks at you expectantly, then disappointedly, then disinterestedly, then dismissively.  Game over.

HOW TO AVOID THIS HEINOUS: attraction killer

ANOTHER SUREFIRE TECHNIQUE TO: Raise your communication skills

The attraction game is like a sales pitch, you have a limited amount of time to sell yourself, and if you don’t make a good pitch in that time, then you don’t make the sale and you go home alone.  Even if you don’t have the gift for blabbery, you can learn this crucial skill.

But you can’t take a magic pill to magically learn this skill, it takes effort and constant practice.  If you’re an introvert and don’t really enjoy conversing with strangers, you just need to learn to “turn it on” when the situation calls for it.

Practice striking up innocent conversations with random people throughout the day and this will develop your confidence for when it matters.

4) Body Language

55% of communication is visual which means that over half of what we say to others, we say with our body.  Even when you’re saying something, the body can be communicating something else.

Knowledge of body language is critical because women have a strong sense of intuition, what we refer to as a BS meter.  So if your words are badass but your body is saying you’re scared, women will pick up on that and game over.

OTHERWISE KNOWN AS: The congruency test

Someone versed in body language can observe a man trying to pick up a woman and predict whether he’s going to be successful or not.  He can also gauge the interest level of the woman and the actual quality of the man.

Yes, this is a lot of information and a lot of skills to master, but like any skill, it will take practice and effort.  And like any relevant skill, there is no shortcuts, the journey is hard, but the rewards are great.  Your journey can start here.

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